Title: Is he cheating?

By: tanny

My boyfriend and I have been together for 11 months. We are both sophomores in college and play basketball. He is by far the one of by best friends and the best boyfriend I have ever had. After only 3 months together he told me I was "THE ONE." Things were good until summer break. We are about 750 miles apart so we talked on the phone everyday. One day while on the phone, he hung up in my face and after 2 days told me he knows that I was cheating on him. I have never cheated on anyone or done anything to make him suspicious. We made up quickly and 3 weeks before school resumed, he came to see me for a day. When we came back to school, I had knee surgery and he was there for me every step of the way. Nearly 1 month later he started acting suspicious. He rarely spent quality time with me, says he is always tired, we rarely kiss or have sex, and he has lied to me. He usually comes by my room after classes, meals, practice, games, and alot during his free time. One Friday, they had a game and he didn't come by afterwards. One of my teammates also told me before his game, he was sitting with a girl from a college nearby. That Saturday, they had another game and I didn't see him before of after the game until the next day nearly 5pm. He told me he was with a teammate that I know he doesn't hang with. I soon had a conversation with him and asked him about his strange behavior and he apologized and said he didn't know he was acting strange. Since then, he has still acted strange and a few days ago I found an entry in his incoming calls list titled "Hoe Calling." I love him dearly but my mind is positive that he is cheating on me. He has changed so much in the last 3 months. I don't know if I should try to work through this, take some time, or move on with my life. Please help me.

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Friday, November 26, 2004 -
Answer by: sam