Ok hmm where to start....umm yeah. I know our past hasnt been the greatest of times...but then again it was for me, most of the times anyway. Hopefully you remember the good times. I'm annoyed that i feel like i cant tell u how i really feel about u and this whole thing. I jus dont care anymore, w/e u think about it is up to u, i'm jus gunna friggn say it, ok i love you w/all my heart, my feelings havent changed, you mean everything to me. I kinda almost started to get teary eyed at your house thinking about this whole situation. I'm telling you i love you because i mean it. I have always missed you. I missed you look'n at me even when i said not to, i missed laying w/u and watch'n u sleep, i missed being in your arms and u holding me all night. I even missed you telling me i was wrong and u were right. I dunno if u even care what i am saying but w/e i gotta let all this out. I wanna be with you, people make mistakes ok, and i admit i was wrong ya know, and i know your afraid to try this again, so am i, but i really do think we could do this, and as for the parents i'm not even thinking about that right now....i'm thinking about you and me. Thats what matters anyway. You only live once, and i dont want to regret not trying this because i'm always going to wonder what if, and if your feelings havent changed i think you need to think about this. Please write me back right away so i can read what u havta say before i go to bed...
Thats what I got tonight from my ex. Well after we met up tonight and did something that I do regret. We had sex tonight and well I thought it would mean more then it did. I don't know if I'm over her or what but I don't know what to do. I really don't have as strong of feelings as I did for her a year ago.. Mabe i'm afraid to say what I feel but I dunno. It's really weird now, she wants me back and I am sad to say in no rush to get back with her. She spills her guts and I don't know what to do. I guess mabe the only ppl that can help me with this is enigma and emma cause they know my previous situation with her. But be glad to know that I don't feel for her nearly as strong as I did before.. I dunno what I'm doing, I'm scared as hell right now.. any suggestions.. ?
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--- Monday, November 29, 2004 -
Answer by: Sara
Ask yourself the ? why don't you have those same feelings? Why did you guys break up in the first place? I'm kind of in the same situation with a guy that I dated for 3 years. You can email me at crystal_03@cutey.com
Yes you were, i'm sorry, I do remember you dr. Phil... I just forgot cause you changed your name.. oopsie... Thanks alot for the advice. Thats what I'm going to do right now, is just think about everything right now.. I dunno whats going to happen..
--- Monday, November 29, 2004 -
Answer by: sam
Actually Kev -- I was there for you and I do know your situation. I was Dr. Phil Wannabe before, and I remember your story.
I can't tell you how you are feeling, but it might have something to do with the fact that she really hurt you and put you through some serious hell, and you got that job and moved on courageously... I gotta tell you that whole thing probably made you a stronger, wiser man.
Maybe you have moved on, maybe you let her go in your heart, but of course you still care for her as a friend.
My advice is (take it or leave it) to have some time away from her to gather up your thoughts and feelings, and see what you think about having another go with this girl.
If you decide that you don't want to have a relationship with her again -- that's okay.
Either way, I wish you the best.
--- Sunday, November 28, 2004 -
Answer by: stiffmeis
lol hurt her mentally. I find that extremely humorous considering the situation.. LoL yeah I really didn't mean to sleep with her, I feel horrible for doing that and i've told her that right now I wanna be just friends.. I dunno what'll happen kinda wanted the input from alot of people before i decide. that way I can get every angle on this..
--- Sunday, November 28, 2004 - grrr
Answer by: beebee
ok..well let me first of all start off by sayin dont sleep wid the girl if you dont want her..or in your case have the same feelings for her as you did a year ago! its obvious from her letter she loves you. i dont know your past problems with her. but i do know that if you dont want to really be with her JUST DONT. and dont sleep with her out of feeling bad for her. Because im sure she CAN find another man with time. But my advice to you is just think about whether you want to be with her or not...Seriously..and tell her your decision. and if you choose not to be with her and move on. then dont sleep with her. that sends her mixed emotions from you and that could really hurt her mentally...ok thanks
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