ok 1st of all thanks 4 reading dis... i was wid a boy for 2 yrs. we had alot of problems. He was my 1st & we just had alot of problems thru da relationship.but i luv him So much. well finally about 2 wks ago i decided 2 try 2 move on. well now i have a new b/f. he treats me like a queen. He would do n-e thing 4 me..well.2 day my 1st called me crying b/c he had found out i moved on.dat just melted me down.but i didnt lie. & i told him dat i did find sum1 else. So he hung up crying. Now i dont kno what 2 do..i luv my 1st more than anything. but i care alot 4 my new b/f. in my head its telling me 2 go back 2 my 1st. but i kno dat would be wrong. Plz Help mE!! i love my 1st so much. i would do n-e thing 4 him.but i care for my new b/f also..
thanks 4 ur time..
Responses to this article:
--- Thursday, December 2, 2004 - Move on
Answer by: tanny
beebee, I think you should give this new guy a chance. Regardless of how old you get, you will never stop loving your 1st and that is okay and natural. I think the only reason he wants you now is because he knows he doesn't have control of you like he usually does. I know it will be so hard, but you need to be strong and be loyal to those that have been loyal to you.
--- Wednesday, December 1, 2004 -
Answer by: beebee
i can give good advice yeah but i cant help myself..i need help 2
--- Wednesday, December 1, 2004 - Look in The Mirror
Answer by: Gotte
This is a message you left for someone else. You know how they say if you have good advice you should take it...well look in the mirror babe...stay strong and take care of you because you only have yourself.
Wednesday, December 1, 2004 - Answer by: beebee
well you dont need to stay with her any longer...that will just hurt her more than it is already going to. if i was you i would just tell her that you arent ready for committment..and that you need some time on your own. She's going to cry and try to make you feel bad So you wont leave her. but like you said you want to end it..you just need to let her know that. But if you are going to leave.then leave dont mess with her still and confuse her..So what im saying is dont send mixed emotions. Just tell her. There's no easy way to leave someone. So just do it. or Dont..but if your going to leave. Do it now and dont stay longer So she can just fall in love with you more.. OK THANKS
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