Title: He flipped the script

By: tanny

I posted my story about a week ago about how I suspected my boyfriend was cheating. Since then, on Sunday, my dad went into the hospital and he was in my room with me. I was sad about my dad and wasn't feeling up for going through our breakup right then and there. He had his phone in his pocket and was doing something with it and I said let me see. He got immediately defensive and was like no! and why? and stop! I didn't feel like putting up with that dumb sh*t so I told him to leave and he was like are you serious. I said yes and he got up and left. I didn't see him around anywhere until Tuesday across campus and neither of us said anything. I called him that night and left him a message that we need to talk. No response. I left another message Wednesday night. No response. I just seen him today, Thursday in the cafeteria and he didn't say a word.

All I really want is closure. But it seems like he is trying to flip things on me like I did something to him or he is pissed off. Should I just send his things that I have by his friend and be done or just go up to him when I see him and confront him? I don't want to be crazy but I really need some closure because we spent 11 months together and I still love even though we can't be together.

Thanks to anyone who responds and helps to make my breakup just a little bit easier!

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Thursday, December 2, 2004 - Here is an idea...
Answer by: Gregg@loveisgreat.com