ok, well I started talking to this guy a couple of months ago and everything has been going great until tonight something caught my attention...in the past he has told me that he has had 2 1/2 one night stands...he said that like he regreted them and the 3rd one he couldn't even go all the way through with it...He said that like sex has to mean something to him...He's had a serious gf b4...
but ok so tonight I asked him if it made him look at girls differently...b/c one of my buddies said that it made him look at girls differently...well his response was "no we were just there and we both just felt like it so we just did it" (ok and they were friends b4) so i was like well that didn't like make things weird b/w you guys....and he was like no I mean we still talk and its only weird if you make it weird...
He's never tried to do anything like that w/ me...but now how do I know that he just isn't puting on a front w/ me? I don't know I mean can a guy just have casual sex but then later really get serious w/ someone too? It's just the fact that he wasn't totaly honest w/ me from the begining about how he really felt about it that bothers me....
Sorry this is so long...Thank you SOOOOOO much for any help!!!
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--- Sunday, December 5, 2004 -
Answer by: stiffmeis
Seems to me he sounds like a shady character, I call em weinie tots.. Well yeah, just be careful and don't do "it" until you are ready for "it". Don't let him pressure you into anything you dont' wanna do. He might just be out for a piece of ass but might truely love you.. Only you can tell really. I don't like guys that take advantage and lie to girls just to snag some ass.. I personally would beat there ass and I could because I'm Kevin.. So yeah my point is this "take it slow, and if you end up getting played for it, snag his address and i'll snag a road trip." Bam problemo solved... ~kev
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