Title: Is it too soon.

By: tanny

My ex-boyfriend and I broke up about 2 weeks ago and at first I was a mess. But now I am okay because I realize he wasn't who I thought he was or even worth my time. The word got back to me that he spent the night with a girl at a nearby college and we had sex after that one more time. I just had to confront him. Of course, he lied. So I just sucked it up and promised myself I would try not to think about or talk to him anymore. But when I see him around campus, he always cuts his eyes at me. He is constantly just around at random times. There is this guy that I have been kicking it with for about a week and he seems to just hang out in my new friend's dorms. I am trying to get completely over him and this new guy is fun to be around. I have no intentions of making him my new bf. But even if I was it really isn't his business. He is having a great deal of bad luck since our breakup from what one of his friends told me. I don't feel sorry for him and I shouldn't. What goes around comes around.

Am I wrong for kicking it with and talking to this new guy. I already told him I am getting out of a relationship and that I don't want a bf, that I'm not getting physical with him and he is cool with that. If I just sit aroung and do nothing all the time, then I will probably think about my ex. Am I wrong? Is it too soon?

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Sunday, December 12, 2004 -
Answer by: Sara

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Friday, December 10, 2004 -
Answer by: sam