can a person who used to be a really caring person but got taken advantage of all the time build up walls to not let anyone in anymore...in a sense not care anymore about anyone? or do they still care deep inside but just not show it?
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--- Thursday, December 16, 2004 -
Answer by: Emma
Hi Sara, Sam's right - could you tell us a bit more? We're here to give you support so hopefully, with a tad more info, we'll be able to better answers to help - don't be scared :)
(Kev! Check out your "Nice guys finish last..." post)
Later guys :)
Em
--- Tuesday, December 14, 2004 -
Answer by: sam
Is there something that you want to talk about here, Sara? Why don't you tell me what's really going on and I can give you a better answer. :-)
Hey Kev -- you're absolutely right, people who've been hurt do built walls, and only time and trust can slowly lower it.
--- Monday, December 13, 2004 -
Answer by: stiffmeis
<--prime example.. I was cheated on, taken advantage of, and thrown away.. Yes i've built up walls, and well not caring isn't what i'd use just more cautious about what I say or do towards someone I love.. Kinda like when you're hurt soo badly a wall is put up 100feet tall around your heart.. And only time and trust can take the wall down one brick at a time..
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