Its been a while since Ive been online here. last time I was here someone made me see sense that explained that I had to move on because my ex wasnt coming back this really hurt but maybe they were right.
I am alot stronger than I use to be and have been moving on with me life alone with my ex I still think about him and wonder what hes up to espiecally this time of year. And dispite that Im feeling alot better if I was told that I had one wish It would be to be back with my ex becuase I do still love him and miss him terribly.
I use to contact him often and send him emails but I have keft him alone I havent contacted him in two months. than just last week out of the blue he sent me an email which said hi how are you? I couldnt believe it because last time we spoke he told me he never wanted to hear from me again and he didnt want me for a girlfriend or a friend. and here he was contacting me it was strange kept the conversation short. he told me that whenever Im online to feel free to send him a email he would like to know how Im getting on.
I cant understand the sudden chenge of heart I dont know what to do do I have a chance with him
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--- Tuesday, December 21, 2004 -
Answer by: sam
I think I remember you and your story.
Anyway, I hope things have been getting easier for you, I remember how torn you were over the situation... one day at a time, it will get better and easier.
As for my advice on this one, I think you should respond to the e-mail. His getting in contact with you doesn't mean that he wants to get back together, but is merely curious about what you've been up to. Write me back but keep it short and sweet -- and tell him that's you've been doing great and that life couldn't be better for you.
Which, shouldn't be a lie, right? The guy abandoned you and virtually dropped you like a hot potato. You are better without him in life.
--- Monday, December 20, 2004 -
Answer by: stiffmeis
hmm well just because he contacted you doesn't mean he wants you back, just curious how you are doing. I contacted my ex wondering how she was doing because I was curious. Mabe he wants to be friends, I believe if you truely love someone wether its as a friend or lover that love never leaves, his curiousity is natural, I mean he cares for you obviously I think but not the same way you car for him. Mabe something is still there thats very possible just don't get yourself down because of this, still try to move on and whatever happens happens... goodlcuk
--- Sunday, December 19, 2004 - Give It Time
Answer by: ajq111085
I was with a guy for alittle over a year, we just broke up like 2 months ago. I miss him and think about him too, its not unusual. Just give it time! If it was really meant to be, he'll want to work things out and be with you again. The guy I was dating just emailed me today and wants to work it out. He may just need time to think. Don't keep putting yourself down about it. Yes I know it is very hard, but you can do it. It sounds like he still loves you too and hes obviously thinking of you because he emailed you. Just give him a chance, and if he doesn't come back, I'm very sorry! He'll just be missing out, right?
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