my man and i were together on and off for seven years. we broke up a few times but never for very long. we were together for one year when he broke up with me. we got back together of course on a sunday. the very next sunday he dumped me and the next day he was going around seeing all his friends all over the place.
he even still has the nerves to come over to talk to my mom, and braggs to her in fornt of me on how many numbers he has now and how all these girls hit on him (it is true) it just hurts that he was over me so fast. we had everything planned for our future. where i was going to go to college where we were going to live. everything. i even lost my well ya know to him.
i thought that he really loved me but i guess not. but now that we are over its like i want him back soo bad but...... then when i am around this other guy i do not think about my x. but when i am alone i start thinking he could be holding me and kissing me and tellin me how he cant wait tell we moved out and sweet talkin me. but then he treats me like crap when we were not being intament. what do i do
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--- Tuesday, December 21, 2004 -
Answer by: sam
My honest perspective is -- it was a youthful relationship. And by this, I mean that you both are very young. No offense, but it is very naive to think that you could get any sort of commitment from this guy if you two were breaking up every other Sunday. I mean, come on, on a Sunday??
Listen, this guy is being young and wanting to have his fun. He is not ready for a commitment with any girl, nor is he mature enough to handle one.
I mean, really. Why would you even want to be with this sucker? He's telling your mother for crying out loud that he is a "player" getting a bunch of digits.
I'm sorry, I'm not trying to be insensitive here, but this guy is a dork. If you two do get back together, it'll just last another week until Sunday rolls around again... seriously, it's just becoming a consistent pattern that is showing you it's not working out. Move on and don't look back.
--- Monday, December 20, 2004 - Relax
Answer by: ajq111085
I'm very sorry hes doing this to you, but you know what, if he wants to treat you this way and always leaves you, you don't need him. I know its hard not to want him back and not to think of him, but look at it this way, hes missing out on what he could have had. It seems to me this guy doesn't know what he wants. Now this other guy you've been seeing?!?! If you don't think about your ex when your with him and he treats you good, take things slowly and see what happens. Don't rush into anything, who knows, maybe you'll be very happy with him annd have a happy ending. Good Luck!
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