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Title: IN the spirit of Christmas can u help me?
By: gurlie_16
well I went to JC and preachers came to preach down their!So when I got out i asked my saved friend for help and I started going to her church.I have an ANGER PROBLEM where I hit people when I get MAD or you can be on my good side & I'll be alittle ANGEL.Well my mom & I are close now cause she was the 1 I hit.Anyways the person that helps out the pastor is 19 or 20 right away I thought he is HOT,but way to good for me.So I was like I leave him ALONE!Well I found out eh was looking at me & IDK if it was cause I was the closest or he was attracted to me.well I was the happiest girl in the world and oh yea I am 16.well anyways as time grew on I started to grow on him.I hugged him all the time & I thought it was just a small crush you know cause he was so HOT & perfect personality well my ANGER PROBS went away.I had no problems & I was a hug CHRISTIAN!Well a few months later they realized before I realized I was falling IN LIVE with him & made it where we can't be around eachother.It hurt so bad & all my probs came back.I feel like he was my ANGEL guiding me to the right direction & I feel like he is the one I am supose to be with.I prayed about it & I got signs he was the one BUT I am scared & should I stay away and let GOD make it happen or talk to him.He will talk to me cause he did in the pastor's face las Thursday but they threatened to kick me out of church if I didn't stay away.I wanted to talk back to him so bad.anyways he kept on saying to himself YES GOD YES GOD & destiny.my friends were playing aroun d going michelle are u pegnet & I wwas playing around saying yes!He said pregnet with destiny & I didn't get what he meant until I wokeup & realized he was the one for me.When I hear his voice my ANGER calms down even if it is just fom an answering machine.Yesterday I got mad I MEAN MAD at a friend for something I had a right to get mad at and I was going syco!something told me to call his office & I did & I was happy again & calm.cause his voice on the answering machine.should I tell him this or just wait for it to happen??
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--- Thursday, December 23, 2004 -
Answer by: sam
I'm confused here... obviously this guy had a positive influence on you and helped you... so why can't you talk to this guy at all, and why does your church feel like they need to interfere? No offense, but that doesn't sound normal to me... I mean, isn't this guy capable to handle things himself, i.e., a 16 year old girl? Why must you stay away from him, or your church will kick you out? That a bit harsh, to say the least.
My only suggestion is -- if you really like this guy, join another church. That way, you can put moves on him and have no worries.
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