I have a boyfriend and we have been together for a little over a month. But when I met him, he had a girlfriend already and now "they are not together anymore." But he is still living with her, and she is always calling me telling me that they are still together. Well she can't call me anymore because I got my number changed. But I have this feeling that they are still together and that he doesn't care about me. He tells me that he lives me and all this other stuff but I have no clue what to do. He doesn't have any family that live in the same town that we do, and he has nowhere else to go. I am only 17 and so I can't get my own apartment yet, but he said that once I get my own apartment that he will live with me and be with only me. I am really confused and don't know what to do. Please help....
~* Wendy *~
Responses to this article:
--- Tuesday, December 28, 2004 - find out the truth
Answer by: AutumnsTragedy
Talk to the girl.
--- Sunday, December 26, 2004 -
Answer by: tanny
At 17, you are just infatuated. Don't waste your time and don't just look forward to living with someone in your apartment. Demand self respect. Good Luck :)
--- Thursday, December 23, 2004 - Update
Answer by: glittrgurl10987
Well he hasn't call me at all today but he always does this. I am going to get my number changed after Christmas so this way it will be better. Thanks.
--- Thursday, December 23, 2004 - Lose Him
Answer by: ajq111085
Girl...you are only 17 years old, there are a lot more fish in the sea. I have to agree with Sam, you are both being used. If hes still living with her and shes telling you they are together, 9 chances out of 10, they are still together. don't waste your time on this man, get rid of him, you can do better!
--- Thursday, December 23, 2004 -
Answer by: sam
Both of you are being used by this guy. Tell him to not call you anymore and move on... that is, unless you want to share a guy with another person... and potentially get an STD if you're sleeping with him. Seriously -- get some self-esteem and dump this loser.
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