Me and my boyfriend have been dating now for about 3 months. We have a big history together also from back in the day. These last couple days hes been saying stuff to me and then says hes joking. See he was dating this girl in Delaware for a few years and got really close to her children, then she kicked him to the curb. Well he keeps playing around with me saying hes going back to Delaware and stupid stuff along them lines. He also keeps telling me hes using me for sex, its very frustrating. I don't know whether to believe him or not. What should I do and what should I think? Please help.....
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--- Wednesday, January 5, 2005 -
Answer by: klagesgal
He's hurting you in ways that you ill not see for a few years. You already know its a problem because you're okay to talk about it. By him saying 'im going to go back to delaware' or im just using you for sex is a way for him to try to get more out of you. I bet he walks all over you and I bet that if you think about it you'll come up with more things he's said or done along the same lines. Joking or not, a healthy relationship does not consist of this. Next time he tells you he's going to go back to delaware tell him that sounds like a great idea. While your at it also tell him that you're going to find someone who will truely apprecaite you and all that you do. If you haven't already guess at what im getting at, you need to get rid of him. Now.
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