I met a girl through a friend. We huun g out a couple times in a group and hit it off. Then we went out one on one. Things went great:nice dinner, drinks after, spent the night at her place (no sex though, just made out or whatever and slept together).
Since then though, nothing else has come of it. Ive been proactive too. We spoke only a few times on the phone since our date night, but she would email me everyday, and I would reply. But whenever I would suggest we hang out, she had something to do. Last Friday she told me she'd call on Sat. night and we could meet up. Well she never called, and hasn't emailed me since (its Wednesday now).
If she lost interest thats cool but I just dont see why. I mean, we have a great time and I spent the night (but no sex). I dont want to call or email her because I feel its her obligation to make next contact, as she said she would. I also dont want to come off as desperate (which I'm really not). I just like her and want to know what the deal is here. Should I call/email? Dont I have that right? Or should I just forget it?
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--- Friday, January 14, 2005 -
Answer by: tanny
I say email. You don't want to regret not finding out the deal or just end things with not knowing. If you are interested in her just find out for yourself.
--- Wednesday, January 12, 2005 - duh
Answer by: eskemo
Maybe she doenst think your cute and she wants to be nice because ur a nice guy or maybe shes holding onto you and seeing someone else just in case the otehr loser bails. theres a million possibliteis..i'd be straight forward and tell her. call her up! geez MAN UP.
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