how can i get my girl back if i messed up and i regret it . I love her she loves me but she is with someone else. what do i do to get her back
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--- Friday, January 7, 2005 - Let the love pro adviser help you out!
Answer by: love pro adviser
Well that you can say that geting you're girl back is not easy at all and that if you really want her back, persuade her to let her know that you want her back. HEY missknowitall, HOW OLD ARE YOU? because I been reading a article you wrote in the teen section.
--- Thursday, January 6, 2005 - well..........
Answer by: missknowitall
it depends on if she wants to be back with you....
--- Wednesday, January 5, 2005 -
Answer by: klagesgal
Call it a lesson learned. I often left relationships feeling like I still needed that person, but I moved on and it was well worth it. Each mistake that you've made and realized later on is one you'll always remember for your next relationship, and what not to do. If it's ment to be she'll come back.
--- Wednesday, January 5, 2005 -
Answer by: Emma
Well... she's with someone else now so really - unless you're intent on breaking up her new relationship - you should try your best to move on.
You say she loves you... why would she be with someone else? I'm just guessing here - but she may have spent some time being single after your relationship, waited a while perhaps for you to make promises for things to change but at some time she would have been left with no option but to move on...
No matter if you love that person; the damage from a break-up may always be a reminder that the two of you weren't compatible, so please bare this in mind.
All you can do, in my opinion, is to live by example. Show her that you really are a different person, just don't pressurise her in any way, that would be counter-productive - if she loves you as you say she does - seeing that you are genuinely a changed man should be all she needs to reconsider a future relationship with you.
For now, she's found someone who makes her happy so if you really love her you'll be happy for her. Truly loving someone is the ability to let them go - alright it sucks, but if you've ever experienced it, you'll know how true that statement really is.
Life's too short to wait around so don't close any doors. Enjoy your own space & never pin all your hopes on one particular person. Everything makes you stronger.
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