just recently I have been having a few emails from my ex this was the same ex that told me never to contact him again and that he wanted nothing to do with me as a friend or a girlfriend so with a broken heart I left him alone and didnt bother him for over two months until he contacted me on the 8th dec he asked how I was and just recently we hae been sending each other the odd email and none of us have mentioned the relationship I have been very plesant to him and havent let on that Im missing him I have been strong and im not forcing anything.
I have just recieved a email from him again today he was asking if I had met anyone and basically how I was in general I dont know what to think it feels so wired at the moment when we were together we were going to get a place together and im looking for a place at the moment on my own and I told him this in one of our emails and he said hes getting his own place too. we are wishing eachother luck but it just seems so strange but I dont want to tell him how i feel because Im scared I might scare him off
What do I do and do you think hes interested
Please Help
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--- Sunday, January 16, 2005 -
Answer by: Emma
You really can do a lot better. It seems this guy is so sure about how strongly you feel about him that he has chosen to adopt this somewhat arrogant persona which enables HIM to be the one calling the shots. A lady never wants to be in a position like that so have a little more respect for yourself.
If he wants to be with you I personally don't believe he would have been so strict about you not contacting him EVER AGAIN. Carry on as you are; get a place on your own. If it's meant to be it'll happen so just don't be any guy's puppy.
Good luck
--- Friday, January 14, 2005 - Eff him
Answer by: glass88
I'm really sorry, honey, but you need to cut him off completely. He is a total jerk who had the nerve to cut a beautiful woman like you out of his life. Eff him. He doesn't deserve even a look from you! Go out and find someone who is worth your time. Who cares whether he's interested in you? You shouldn't be interested in him. (And PS, he clearly is NOT interested in you because he told you never to contact him again not long ago).
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