I started dating this dude in the year of 2003. we started having problems, so we broke up. i am so in love with my ex!! it has been so hard for me to get over him. now, about 4 days ago he told me that he had his new girlfriend pregnant. i almost killed myself when he told me that!! so can someone please give me some kind of advice before this baby is born, and then it will make it even harder on me.
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--- Friday, January 21, 2005 - just let go
Answer by: 120903
ok-i can tell you're hurting...alot! and its understandable. but, when and if you're ever around this guy, at least SHOW him that you're over him, and that you've moved on, even if its not true. prove to him you're fine without him, and dont let him see you in pain. he obviously is out there to make lives miserable if he casued you two problems, and then goes and gets someone else pregnant. now, i'm not in any position to say that your ex and his gf arent in love or whatever, but if i were you, i'd move on, cuz you deserve better, just think...would you wanna be in that girls position-pregnant? just think about that....
hope i helped
--- Wednesday, January 19, 2005 - mm mmm mm m
Answer by: beebee
girl i know u are hurting my first did the same thing to me i was in a relationship with him for almost three years i was to the point of obsession with him and i knew alot of things he did was wrong but i didnt care i loved him Sooo much, it all Didnt matter i forgot who i was..and my beliefs..u dont need to think of dying over a boy that is not worth nothing but grief ! forget him somehow it will take a while u can make it i promise
--- Sunday, January 16, 2005 -
Answer by: sam
Emma gives excellent advice there. I agree that it is long time you move on.
--- Sunday, January 16, 2005 -
Answer by: Emma
What choice is there? Your ex has made his current girlfriend pregnant & despite how a lot of people act today being a parent involves a certain degree of responsibility.
You should never be so dependent/obsessed with another person to contemplate suicide over them. Relationships are 50/50 & being dependent like that, in my opinion, isn't healthy.
If this is going to be unbearable for you then you have to do your very hardest to not be around him, his girlfriend or their child when he or she enters the world.
Go out, meet new people & stay occupied. To do anything else would cause heartache for you. Your feelings will fade, no matter how strong they may be now, but by dwelling on the current situation you will only be tormenting yourself.
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