How do you know your in love, are if you just like being around them?
what does it mean when he doesn't want to break up with you but you do?
When is the right time to say no to his family?
How do you know if hes lieing?
What should you do if he cheated on you in the first month of your relationship and now its been 10 months and i still havn't done it back?
your still hurt about being cheated on?
Will he do it again?
What made he cheat in the first place?
How do you know if he can take care of you?
What if hes nice to you when hes sober but when he starts drinking he starts getting mad at me and doesn't like it when i talk to other people?
Does he really love me?
Is he using me?
Will he grow up?
What if his whole family is still at home and don't have jobs will he turn out like them?
Will be lazy forever?
Why doen't my father like him?
Can i trust him with me heart?
Why does he cook for me?
Does he want me fat?
Responses to this article:
--- Wednesday, January 19, 2005 -
Answer by: Emma
Okaaay... so I'm guessing you don't have ALL these problems :)
Sam, I love your views on relationships - I have nothing more to add on that score!
I agree that maybe you're with a guy who's not right for you??!! Well, let me tell ya somethin' - you need to put yourself first & live your life the way YOU wanna... Always putting other peoples needs first & fretting too much over other people's feelings will only lead to heartache for you so when you're dating someone don't over analyse, enjoy the flow & the happiness that having someone in your life to care about you for as long as it lasts... if it's meant to be it'll be.
"Interesting" post though!
--- Tuesday, January 18, 2005 -
Answer by: sam
???????
Look... in my experience, real and true love comes naturally. It isn't forced. It does not involve cheating, lying, etc. You are comfortable with yourself, and you let things flow, and grow. Love is a deep bond that two people share that develops over time.
All relationships have problems, of course -- but you are asking twenty questions here about this guy and posing bad scenarios that only point out how unhappy you are -- which leaves me to believe that this guy is BAD for you. If you're dating a guy that has cheated on you, then you should know why your father doesn't like him, and why you can't seem to trust him. Trust is earned and once it is broken it is hard to get back. If he drinks a lot and abuses you in the process, then get out. If he cooks for you and if he wants you to be fat(???), I don't have an answer for you there (confusing).
If your relationship is having too many problems (as is indicated here) then break up with the guy already. You'll save yourself a lot of heartache, time, and pain. Sometimes you have to realize in life that some people are just toxic to us, and we are better off without them.
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