Title:
when a girl tells you that she doesnt feel anythin
By: BigGuy70
i have this girl who i love very much, but she says that she cant feel anything anymore. that she is lost and alone. we have been dating for 11 months now and she doesnt care anymore. she doesnt care about school, her job, family, and is getting mixed feelings about me. We started off in a normal relationship and now are in a long distance. I need help, any suggestions?
Egads yes, something may have happened. (Agreeing with dima and emma in their comments) It is a sure sign of depression or change in her life. You need to treat her with respect, support her and be there for her. Don't try and force answers out of her, but do talk to her and treat her well. Express that you are worried about her and you are there to help her.
~LB ibIncognito
--- Monday, January 24, 2005 -
Answer by: Emma
I agree with Dima, it sounds as though she may be depressed. She ought to try & seek help or open up to you, at the very least...
Show her you care & that you're always here for her. That may be enough for her to tell you how she's feeling. The distance only adds to the problems.
Be there for her, talk to her lots & lots. You might want to talk to her family if you are seriously worried, depression can often have tragic consequences.
I really hope things work out.
--- Sunday, January 23, 2005 -
Answer by: dima
if she doesn't care about anything anymore... that COULD be a sign of depression. Maybe she's having a lot of problems and is trying to just block everything she feels by "not caring". I've done this before and just thought that I had let myself go numb, when I really just pushed all my feelings inside... which ultimately ended up being a destructive thing to do. Just keep talking to her to find out whats triggering her sudden "not caring" because it sounds as if she needs someone to talk to.
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