Ok, I have been with my boyfriend for a while (a little over 5 months) We went out before for 5 months also, but then we broke up and I went out with his friend. But, it's seems like lately everybody has been coming between me and Daniel (my bf). If it's not my mom telling me he can't come over, it's his dad making him do work or go fishing with him. Then if it's not either of them, I'm busy or neither of us can find a ride to get to each other. I don't want to break up with him just because it gets hard, we've been through a lot together for people our age (15,17). He also goes to a different school than me and we live 20 minutes away from each other by car. SO i'm wondering what I could do to make the relationship at least a little easier and I have no idea what I can do. Please, help.
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--- Sunday, February 6, 2005 -
Answer by: Emma
Plan stuff. If you don't plan anything then there's nothing to look forward to & nothing to use as an excuse when someone else wants to add to your already busy schedule.
If you really want to make things work you'll do it. Communicate, talk on the phone. Life's always hectic so no matter who you're with you're going to have to make sacrafices in other areas if you want to build strong relationships.
Best of luck
--- Saturday, February 5, 2005 - Similar to Greenfairy
Answer by: LiLOnE
Well me and my bf have been together for 4 months and well we go to different schools and we bearly see each other because im involved in alot of things at school which keeps us from doing things sometimes but we try to set one day a week when we get together so i would recomend that u guys set one day of the week and see each other but dont end it try to work things out tell him how you feel. hope it helps.
ok my bf lives about an hour away from me but we still manage to make it work. im usually always working and he is always busy with school commitments but we do try to phone each other at least 3 times a week and we have both put aside one day a week just for the two of us. If we both can't get a ride we hop on the train and meet half way and just spend the day together. That means that 6 days of the week you and him can do what you like if its fishing or whatever and then 1 day of the week you can spend some time together, and then you can be in happy all week in the knowledge that you are goin to be able to see him! :o) also ask your mum why he can't come over... what would she rather you do, go out and her not have a clue where you are or to be safe at home? Please don't finish the relationship - me and my bf are proof that if we can do it then anyone can! good luck hun xx
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