WELL THERE IS THIS GIRL AND SHE IS THE LOVE OF MY LIFE. SHE WAS PRETTY MUCH MY FIRST EVERYTHING AND WE WERE SO IN LOVE. WELL THATS WHAT SHE WOULD TELL ME. WE HAD SEX PRETTY SOON IN OUR RELATIONSHIP, BUT ONLY BECAUSE WE KNEW WE LOVED EACHOTHER. BUT HERE IS THE THING SHE CHEATED AND LIED OVER AND OVER. SHE WOULD CRY AND SAY SHE WAS SORRY AND TELL ME HOW MUCH SHE LOVED ME AND WOULD SAY SHE WOULD NEVER LIE TO ME AGAIN, GUESS WHAT? THAT WAS A LIE SHE WOULD CONTINUE TO LIE. I WOULD FIND OUT SOMETHING KNEW ABOUT HER EVERYDAY. LIKE SHE WOULD TELL ME STUFF LIKE I ONLY DO STUFF WITH YOU BECAUSE I KNOW YOU LOVE ME AND I LOVE YOU . HONOSTLY I DONT KNOW IF SHE REALLY HAD SEX WITH ME BECAUSE SHE KNEW I LOVED HER, MYBE IT WAS JUST BECAUSE SHE WANTED TO HAVE SEX. SHE SSAYS SHES ONLY BEEN WITH ONE OTHER PERSON. BUT AFTER EVERYTHING I DONT EVEN BELIEVE HER. SHE TOLD ME SOME STUFF SHE DID WITH ONE OF HER EX'S BUT IT WAS NOTHING BIG JUST KISSINGABD EVERYTHING BUT SEX. LATER I FOUND OUT THEY DID A LOT MORE BUT THE THING IS SHE DID NOT LOVE THIS GUY SO THAT GOES AGAINST WHAT SHE TOLD ME ABOUT DOING THING WITH ME BECAUSE WE LOVE EACHOTHER. SO ANYWAYS TO MAKE A LONG STORT I WOULD NOT TAKE HER BACK AND THEN WHEN I DECIDED TO SHE DID NOT WANT TO BE WITH ME SHE SAID SHE NEEDED TIME, BUT I KNEW IT WAS BECAUSE SHE WAS SEEING SOMEONE ELSE OFF AT COLLEGE I JUST SENCED IT. SO ANYWAYS WELL I FOUND OUT THAT SHE WAS DATING A GUY BUT SHE DOES NOT KNOW I KNOW. FOR SOME ODD REASON I JUST CANT GET OVER HER? I LOVE HER SO MUCH AM I CRAZY? WHAT SHOULD I DO SHOULD I WAIT FOR HER? I REALLY THINK SHE HAS CHANGED AND SHE TELLS ME SHE WANTS TO BE WITH ME AND SHE KNOWS IM THE ONE FOR HER. EVEN IF SHE IS SEEING SOMEONE ELSE I DONT KNOW IF SHE IS AT THE MOMENT BUT IF SHE IS IS IT MY BUSINESS TO KNOW? I MEAN WE ARE BROKEN UP BUT I AM WAITNG AND SHE TELLS ME SHE WANTS TO BE WITH ME SO DO I DESERVE TO KNOW OR IS IT NOT MY BUSINESS? I JUST DONT KNOW PLEASE HELP ME THANK YOU.
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--- Friday, February 11, 2005 -
Answer by: tanny
The people we think we love are the ones that hurt us. I think she is just feeding you what she thinks you want to hear. Or maybe she is a little immature and doesn't honestly want to tell you how she really feels. You seem like a nice guy and you shouldn't exert so much of your emotions into her. I have been in your shoes, very nieve and hopeful of love. I think you should try to get over her. I know it is easier said than done but you don't deserve to be played with and lied to. Good luck.
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