Well my story starts some years ago with me as a freshman in highschool. I was a freshman in highschool when i meet the most beutiful girl and amazing girl ive ever meet and probably ever will. Well till now my senior year i never had the courage to talk to her but in this senior year of mine i figured now or never. So first i let her know i had feelings for her but i only have her the tip of the iceberg i wrote in a letter to her saying pretty much everything that i felt for her. But this story doesnt have a happy ending. She had told me that she had a boyfriend but what i had wrotten to her was sweet and that she wouldnt mind being friends. Which is ok but i wanted more then to be friends because it would now be wierd going out with her somewhere when she knows how i feel about her and i know how she doesnt feel, it just wouldnt work. But when she told me she had a boyfriend it was true and it wasent. This guy she says shes dating doesnt see it as a relationship with them dating he thinks of her as just a sex buddy but she doesnt. The one thing that bothers me to is shortly before i wrote her the note a couple of her friends where trying to hook her up with the guy but it didnt work out for some reason but she was interested in him. So my question and delema is Does she even have the smallest interest in me and on top of that should i still try to win her over because i dont think i will get another chance like this agian she is AMAZING and i feel if i dont get her ill be alone forever
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--- Friday, February 25, 2005 -
Answer by: sam
Nobody has these answers for you, and only time will tell.
The point is, usually when someone wants to just "be friends", that is a nice way of letting someone know they aren't interested. However, she is currently "with" someone who she refers to as her boyfriend, and the probability of it working out are slim indeed (most high-school relationships don't anyhow), so you may or may not have a chance when the relationships ends.
My advice is that you get to know her and BE her friend... but in the meantime don't put your life on hold. Meaning -- meet other people yourself and date other girls. If it is in the cards that you two are to be together, then it will happen.
--- Thursday, February 24, 2005 - Never fear. I'm here to help
Answer by: love pro adviser
Well, this is a tough one! I really think you should get something for her and be her secret admirer. then when it comes to a point where you might have her, then tell her and ask her out. tell her that you want to really take her to places and stuf like that. win her heart and you're in!! good luck,
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