I am a nd I gto saved along time ago and after I got saved there was this HOT 19 year old that worked their and my mom knew his real age.I use 2 lie abotu ages but this time I didn't.anyways I started hugging on him.Just church hug cause he wasn't aloud to hug in the regular way well we started hugging in the regular way and didn't ge caught.Well the pastor's wife found out I had a thing for him and she said he sworn himself to another girl,but I wasn't to worried because my sister has sworn herself tog yus before.It never worked out so I wasn't really worried and he isn't aloud to have a g/f so another reason and she was far away.So I thought she would fall for someone down their and they told me to stay away from him.I did for a few months until January came along I was taking pics of my friends and his one friend and he shows up out of nowhere and gets in the pic.Anyways everytime I would be in his way he would say excuse me in a flirty way and one time he didn't.anyways and yesterday at church I saw a ring on his finger which I never have seen one on his finger before.She lives all the way in Florida and he is in memphis TN but someone said she moved to Jackson TN.ANyways I prayed about are we supose 2 be together oneday and that is when he jumped in the pic.Like I thought it was a sign and the other day at prayer I was praying to ymself asking God is me and michael supose to be together out fo nowhere I here michael saying REALLY LOUD yes.So I thought that was the sign.What do you'll think???You think God will handle her if it is meant to be or do I need to talk to him about this??
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--- Thursday, February 10, 2005 - gurlie_16
Answer by: gurlie_16
I use to talk tohim everyday until they told me to stay away and him and it came back and now we talk every now and then.The oastor and his wofe was here yestersay so we talked and stiff anyways finish reading the whole thing!BYE
I must agree it sounds like a crush/infatuation. Still you're feeling pain, so I will try and help. The destiny and fates of relationship are never apparent at first sight. I cannot confirm those incidences being signs that you two are to be together, from a third person perspective it could be him just being friendly, and there being coincidences.
It sounds like a complicated love stuck in secrecy, which is tough to do what Sara described, but that is the best way for you to know the details. Simple questions like, "Oh thats a nice ring, whats that for?", "I hear your girlfriend is in 'Jackson' now?" and so forth may make it easier to ask or start up a conversation with him.
Other notes, It sounds like this is the first time you've felt this way and you're a bit timid. It also sounds like you don't talk to him often, or rather are mostly physically affectionate. Most relationships are better started off through conversation and friendship.
Hmmm this message seems a bit heartless, I'm not trying to convey this in a cold manner... Perhaps a light joke and an how do you say... Anicdote, "Never kick a brick barefooted, if you fail to heed this advice Don't be a hero and get the tetanus shot"
"Ah the good old days of child hood, I remember when we used to race Decapitated gummy bears on Mealworms across the cafeteria floor. We'd still do it, but the court order prevents us."
Last serious piece of advice. If it wasn't meant to be, so be it. God will be preparing you someone else. Yes there will still be pain and nothing we say will probably console you instantly, but tis life we've all felt it too.
~LB ibIncognito
--- Wednesday, February 9, 2005 -
Answer by: sara
Well it sounds like you have a crush on him...Which is totally ok...but my advice to you is before you get all caught up in this guy try to get to know him first...
Be bold and ask him if he has a girlfriend...or try to find out about the ring (if its an engagement ring it should be on the left hand)...as far as if you guys are suppose to be together or not I think that you wont know that until you really get to know him for yourself...
If he does end up having a girlfriend then I wouldn't try to pursue anything with him bc even if you do get him then whats to say that he wont do that to you...
Hope this helps and good luck!!
--- Wednesday, February 9, 2005 - it's impossible to read your posting
Answer by: glass88
I'm sorry, but your writing makes it so that I cannot follow your thread. You have to pay more attention to grammar. I'm not saying you should be Ernest Hemingway, just try to make your writing a little more cohesive. I don't even know what you're problem is, that's how unclear this posting is.
Prayer was saturday and sunday I had to sit close to him cause I had nomore room and all they talked about was LOVE and on his right hand was the ring.
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