ok, Iv'e been showing this same guy that i told you guys about that i like him. But the only thing is when i go to talk to him or wanna give him a realy good sign that i do like him; he's always busy helping ppl out or something. I really just want to drive over to his house an just tell him, look were both adults here, and we've been friends awhile, but i wanted to know if we can be more then friends. You think i should do that? I know that he's been really busy with ppl and work, but i just want to show him a few signs to kinda let him know. I really want to tell him that i like him, but i want to wait awhile; i would like it if he told me. But, we haven't had anytime to talk to each other in a while.
What should i do, should i tell him? Or what should a girl give signs to a guy about? HELP.
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--- Monday, March 14, 2005 -
Answer by: Emma
At first I was gonna say - excuses, excuses, excuses... :-) But hey! You're braver than I am!
If you really feel you could tell him outright that your feelings for him go beyond those shared in a friendship then go right ahead!
Every guy is different, some pick up on the flirting, others need a banner suspended from an small aeroplane... but if you're both busy & perhaps the whole flirting thing falls on deaf ears then I see no reason why you shouldn't let your feelings be known.
Often people say they are great friends, then fear the repercussions any declaration may have on their friendship but I reckon a strong friendship can withstand almost anything.
Be open & honest, you may be missing out on something good :-) But yeah, you go girl for taking the chance! Good luck!
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