I met this girl a few weeks ago we really got along so we exchanged numbers. I have been the one to always end up calling her. I mean I called her the next day after we talked and we spoke for about 2hrs, but then I waited 2 days and called her again. Again we talked for a long time. I even said to her give me a call if you want to do something this weekend and ended up giving her a call on friday night. She acted happy to have me call her and told me of her plans for the night, she kinda had some options to do stuff but told me she didnt really know if she wanted to(never brought up that i previously asked her). So I asked again if she wanted to do something and she said she should do one of those options she had but I would be welcome to meet her and her friends she would call me back. She did later and told me she was going to do something else and might call me later if she is in the area. She never did ,so my question is do you think she has no interest in me?,Is playing hard to get or what? I mean should I just wait on her to call me and see if she does or doesnt and then I will know? Or shall I call he once again I dont want to make it seem I am desperate
Thanks Tom
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--- Tuesday, March 15, 2005 -
Answer by: Emma
Tom, I say don't call her... for as long as need be. If she doesn't call you within a few days, say - you have your answer :-(
It sounds as though she's been giving you the brush off but it's strange how she spent hours talking with you... bizarre but at the end of the day, if she's interested she'll call. Easy as that.
I would say though, her excuses & offer for you to join her "with her friends" either means she's ultra nervous around you (which you'd have sussed by now) or she's waaay too polite to let you down...
Not calling her is the best option though, just don't do all the chasing - it should be give & take, it doesn't mean you appear desperate; it's just not the way it's meant to be is it?
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