I got saved along time ago and this guy who was 19 and still is work their.Anyways I thought he was Hot but that is all.It was no crush or anything.Well after I got saved a few days or weeks later I began to like him.I thought it was an rodinary crush.I would hug on him all the time and he isn't aloud to hug girls the way he did so IDK if it meant anything and the preachers wife told me he sworn himself to another girl back in Florida BUT I knew it isn't gonna last plus he isn't aloud to date and he lives in TN so she'll find someone.She probabl already did anyways and he always looked at me and stuff.That night I realized I LOVED him cause they told me to stay away from him and it hurt so bad BUT id id.well for the NewYear I was aking pics and he jumped right in it and that is when we started talking again.We flirt all the time BUTIDK how to talk things out with him for when he can date.I gt REALLY nervious and all.IDK how to talk to him.HELP PLEASE!I know him and that girl aren't destined to be together.I don't even think he cares about her like that anymore.
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--- Friday, March 4, 2005 -
Answer by: Emma
IDK what your question is...! ;-) Just kidding, the way you write is really bizarre!
Okaaaay, you may not like hearing this but I really do think it's a little too soon to be entering LOVE into this equation... infatuation & the feelings you experience when you meet someone new & interesting are, at first, very strong - it's a matter of whether they remain this strong after the initial "wow"...
It seems also that you make a lot of assumptions about him & entire the situation... "I know him and that girl aren't destined to be together"... could be merely twisting the truth in your favour... but that's just my two cents.
Perhaps if you had a more mature attitude towards him you'd be in a better position to find out whether you & he are destined to be together.
Talk to him if you are able to overcome these nerves. Find out what the situation is. Until you know what's happening with this other girl, the promise he made to her & the way he perceives your relationship - you ought to put any wedding plans on the back burner.
Seriously though, don't throw all of your emotions at the guy all at once - if all of this turns out in favour of this other girl, you're the one who's going to be hurt.
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