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i am shy and dont no how to tell her i like her
By: topgunswat
By: topgunswat
Hey every 1, I wont make this to long, but. There is this girl that I like. We have been friends for about 15 months, we met in a grief group, both of our sis died. Our families r friends now.. well to get to the point…. I like her (a lot), but I am shy, I have never had a gf b4 and I don’t know how to go up and tell her. I am all most 16 so if I did ask her out I could drive a pick her up. Right now we do not see each other to much. She does not get me a lot of time to tell her if I was… we do not talk to much either… I would like to talk to her more but don’t know how. Well can some 1 pl. help me and getting to talk to her and maybe ask her out soon. Thanks if u can.
O ya 1 more thing… I am feeling like depress because I don’t have a gf, but like every 1 I no does, every 1 in my school does… I want to give my love out to some 1not keep it in side of me, I want to show her I love and I am not like any other guy just doing it for the sex. Well ya I could use your help
Tim
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--- Friday, March 18, 2005 - ok Tim, here goes
Answer by: Marek
hey Tim, ok here is some ways that you can get the girls attention. Next time that you talk to her, make it sound like a really in deapth thing that you wanted to talk to her about. Once you guys have been talking for awhile, move in a little closer to her. Keep eye contact; stare at her for awhile. (girls are good about getting something when a guy keeps staring at them for awhile) Whenever she's talking keep your attention on her, don't look over at what someone is doing on the other side of the room. (girls like it when a guy can listen to there conversation, That way when she asks you something you can answer her back and she'll get that you were really listening to her) when your talking to each other, give her a little touch; on the arm or hand. That way it's saying two things, 1. That your really taking in what is being said and 2. that your interested in her, but in a classical way. (touching someone when your talking to them is good, because it makes that person think 'why did they touch me?' and they'll not only think about that touch but you.)
I like it when a guy keeps eye contact with me or he even looks at me from the other side of the room. Talk to her a little more, next time you see her ask her to get together (you want to go in a group that way they don't feel so pressured and nervice. but if it's a movie with some friends there more like themself, and that's good. you want to see them in there natural state.) Give her a little nick name, again it will make her think 'why is he giving me a nickname....' That's what i thought when my guy did that, but i also felt really good, because he only calls me that. Whenever your with her (and you have given her a cute nickname) make sure to call her it, just cassualy. make it flow in with your conversation. If your at a gathering and she's sitting on the couch or something; sit next to her, BUT don't sit right next to her where she will feel like your sitting on her lap. When your talking to her or with her and her friends (or whatever) touch her leg Lightly. ( girls get to thinking when a guy touches them lightly on there arm, hand, ect.they think that something is up.)
Stare at her until she looks at you, she may look away because she's a little shy that your looking at her, but she really does like it. When you guys meet eye contact, give her a little grin or smile. If she keeps looking at you or smiles that is a good sign, but give it time. They say that you can tell a lot to someone just by staring at their eyes once they meet. compliment her on her close, hair, eyes, shoes anything. But you have to really mean it. well that's all that i can think of for now, if i get anything else that pops in mind i will tell you.
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