I was divorced from my wife on June of 2003 after 5 years of marriage. She left me for another man. Our relationship since that time had been cordial at best.We have a 7 and 3 year old together. It was always strictly about the kids. Until March 22nd of this year when she called me out of the blue to talk to me about her man giving her problems and that she wasn't happy with him anymore. She was asking me what to do about her situation. I wanted desparately to tell her I don't care I don't want to hear it. But something stopped me fom doing so. She had gotten an engagement ring from this guy on Christmas that she returned to him on the 23rd of this month. She then procedes to tell me about some guy at her job who is married but incredibly HOT!!. She says he is going to leave his wife and start a relationship with my ex. At least thats what he is telling her. I have tried to tell her that this was not a good thing. She apparently has her heart set on this guy. Even her close friend fom work has said this isn't a good thing. See I love her and I feel that the call out of the blue was a sign for us. I used to be kind of a tough guy, so my guess is that she called me to handle the problem with her man and now she could care less about me. I do think she will come around and realize this isn't good. I am worried about the kids. She does know that I am probably the only constant that she will have in her life. I would love to get back together but I don't want to tell her for fear of ruining what little communication we have. Please help.
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--- Monday, April 11, 2005 -
Answer by: sam
Man, she sounds like she is the epitome of "messed up woman".
Sorry, I'm not judging her, but if you want to save yourself from her manipulations, inform her that you only wish to have a parental realtionship with her -- for the sake of the kids. Faithfullness and loyalty doesn't seem to click in her brain. Count your blessings that you aren't with her, but pity her for being so instable.
You also might want to think about getting full custody of your children. This ex of yours, no offense, doesn't sound like she has any morals, let alone control of her own life.
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