Title:
i know i'm in love. but unsure of which guy.
By: white_rose_dion
hey everyone. i have had been in love once before with this guy, and we were together. but he had to move because his dad got drafted. i know when i'm in love and how it feels. But this time (it's been about a year)i don't know which guy and i'm not sure why. i mean it sounds stupid and yur thinking "she can't be in love if she doesn't know who", but it's ture. My best friend is a guy, and he used to like me. he very special to me. and he and i get along soooo well. we are just perfect with eachother. and then there's this guy who is confused with himself. he is a jock, and hangs with the popular people of the school. But when he's alone or with people he usually doesn't hang; he seems more himself. and he used to like me. but i never noticed it. until people started to tell me he liked me again. he's a complicated person and doesn't know what he wants. he always stares at me, and is akward when we are close together. i have found that he waits until the last moment before the bells rings (school)before he has to get to class just to catch a glance at me. he and i get along well but we have our arguements, but we agree in the most part. then, i'm not sure if i've totally gotten over my guy that moved. i thought i had. but since it's been about a year is it possible that i'm just feeling the imense sadness of being away from him? here's the recap: am i in love with my best friend? or the guy that has always been around that's complicated? or am i just feeling the feelings i had with my guy that moved again? please i am open to any comments! i am 15/f/washington state. and i do appreciate even the rude commments! lol so please leave whatever! thanks! bye ~love~ kara
Responses to this article:
--- Saturday, May 28, 2005 -
Answer by: Buttercup 98
Ok well ur case is so similiar to mine only that I went out w/ both guys, gave both of them a chance. And when I when I did I ended up leaving both of them and realized that I really liked my best friend because he knows everything about me! and the other guy hes cool and everything but so different so I liked that too. The point, well the advice one friend said to me was to stay with the other guy not my best friend because we arent the same, and u kno that crap about opposites atract... plus my best friend will always be there for me and if I really love him I will eventually be with him at last... ok I hope I didnt confuse you.
Ok, first off, if you still ceck this and want my advice, email me.
And best friend? Talking about Kevin? I'm just confused. it'd help. Peace, LC
--- Monday, April 11, 2005 -
Answer by: sam
No offense, but you sound confused. Give yourself time to get to know this guy more... only time will tell if what you feel is truly love, and not just a "crush." Ask him to lunch or the movies. It couldn't hurt.
--- Wednesday, March 30, 2005 - hey i know it's a weird problem!
Answer by: white_rose_dion
hey i know this is a weird situation! but it's really confusing me. i would like to get some input from anyone! even if you think i'm stupid then write that on here, don't just shun me away! anyways, i thanx in advance to those who do write. bye. kara
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