OOOOOKKKKK I have been with this guy for over a year now. We broke up for a couple months and have now been back together for 4 months. For some reason he has No trust in me. He doesnt ever believe me and never lets me go to bars because he thinks I will act like a slut. I am the furthest thing from it which is quite sad. I dont know if he is just really insecure about himself and scared of loosing himself, or is he just a jerk? I love this guy more than anything, and I know he loves me a lot too. I just wish there was some way to build up trust. He's a great guy, and our only problem is trust.... and I dont understand why. Can someone help me?!?!
Responses to this article:
--- Friday, April 15, 2005 -
Answer by: kisses
you said you two broke up, does that mean he has a REASON not to trust you? was it something you did that caused the breakup? If you made a mistake i can understand him. but i also want you to know this, dont give up on him, IF you did make a mistake, you're obviously really sorry about this and he should know it. i dont know if my advice will help considering im saying it as if you may have done something or said something that caused the breakup. if it wasnt you, i'm sorry i couldnt help you more.
--- Thursday, April 14, 2005 -
Answer by: waiting4luv
Was he seeing another woman when you two broke up? I dont think that if you asked him he would tell you the truth but in most cases like this the only explanation is that he may have done something while you guys were broken up that may be making him feel guilty and he is scared you will do the same. Why else would he all of the sudden just loose trust in you.. ya know?
--- Tuesday, April 12, 2005 -
Answer by: sam
Trust is essential in a relationship. When there's no trust... the relationship is ultimately in trouble.
My suggestion is to talk to him. Tell him that he needs to trust you.
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