Hi, I loved me g/f and she broke up twice with me and the third time when she wanted to get back with me I sed no. This last breakup happened in february. I still cant get her out of my mind and I miss her soo much. Im depressed and I feel reli lonely, i cut myself sometimes. I go to a social worker. Nothing is working, I don't want to be here anymore. Now she is going for another guy and I feel bad about that cuz its not me. I miss everything we once did and I want it to be back to normal again. I dont know what to do anymore. I do absolutly nothing now anywhere, I dont help my mom or ne thing ne more, i just gave up. Please help me....
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--- Thursday, May 12, 2005 -
Answer by: sam
Love isn't forced -- it just "happens"... naturally. If this woman doesn't want to be with you, why would you want to be with her? There is a more fullfilling relationship out there, man, trust me.
--- Wednesday, May 11, 2005 -
Answer by: Emma
Sara makes some excellent points... okay, you really ought to at least tell her how you are feeling so as to find out how she feels about you... February isn't that long ago so don't be afraid about your change of heart.
It seems you have many issues in your life & I find it a little hard to believe that this relationship is the cause of it all. It's most important to talk things through & it's great that you have a social worker to help you through it a step at a time.
Take each day as it comes, try to be positive & motivated in your every day life. Giving up makes everyone feel rubbish so it's important that you eat healthily & get some exercise... read, go out for a walk, anything but nothing.
Once you feel better about yourself, you'll be in a better frame of mind to enjoy being in a relationship. If it's with this girl then great, if not you can handle it.
Talk with her as a friend, get some problems off your chest & be open about your situation. If she's worth it she'll stick around, if not you have to look to yourself & be strong.
I hope things work out.
--- Monday, May 9, 2005 -
Answer by: Sara
Well if you miss her why did you tell her that you didn't want to get back together with her? Have you even tried to tell her how you feel?
If I were you I would let her know how you are feeling bc maybe she feels the same. However if you do tell her and she doesn't want to get back together with you then the only thing that you can do is move on. I know that its not easy but you have to get yourself out there and socialize. Dwelling on it only makes it harder. Just remember that everything happens for a reason.
I dated a guy for 4 years and when we broke up I thought that it was the end of the world. but when I finaly pulled myself together I was happier than I had ever been with him.
The love that we give eventually comes back around to us in the end...
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