I know, that the obvious answer could be everyone is different, however in general do girls like to sometimes play it a little cool in regards to guys?
I mean in the fact that they don't make it TOO obvious, though will make the little signals (that you find hard to work out lol), when they like a guy, do girls tend to want the guy to ask them or not bother kind of thing?
Just something i was wondering a little, thanks to all who reply :)
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--- Friday, May 20, 2005 -
Answer by: beej
Emma is right, now adays women still tend to wait for the guy to make the first move. On the same token, there is also the fear that although it's more accepted, a woman who is blatent in her attempt to get a guy's attention can often be branded as "coming on too strong" or "slutty". So yes, many many a woman will send out signals to "test out the water", so to speak. If you feel like a woman is sending you signals and you're interested, send a couple of your own. A smile or a quirky comment joking about the weird guy with the hawaian t-shirt or ripping on you're idiot buddy who won't shut up is a start; I'm sure you can take it from there.
--- Thursday, May 19, 2005 -
Answer by: Emma
No matter how far feminism has come, good old-fashioned techniques will never die out & it is always "easier" if the man takes the lead...
There is something very sexy about a guy being forward, putting himself out there & actually having the confidence to do that...
Kisses is right in saying everyone is different & you know that already but it is ALWAYS nice for someone to have noticed you when you're a woman, it's kinda like realising that you are attractive to at least one person. It's a great confidence boost!
Majority of ladies play it cool though... it's good to hold a little back, to send out a few signals & see if there's any interest as opposed to asking the guy out & getting turned down, which is, somehow different for a woman to take. It's a nature thing ;-)
As for me... it's wonderful when a guy asks me out, it makes me feel happy (even if I'm not interested in him that way) :-D
--- Wednesday, May 18, 2005 -
Answer by: kisses
You're right on the fact that everybody is different, but I know that some girls will try to "impress" a guy if that's what you want to call it. You know-just show him that she's a really cool, fun person. I will admit, if a guy asks a girl out before she asks him, much more flattering, but if she really really likes him, and wants to go somewhere with a relationship, then she'll ask him. I hope I helped you, if you want more advice or opinions, or i didnt really answer your question, you can alwasy email me at xoxkissesxox@charter.net
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