he said he is not ready for a girlfriend right now, but yet he asked me to move in with him. should i move in with him and wait till he is ready?
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--- Monday, May 23, 2005 -
Answer by: Emma
Nope... beej sums it all up in one pretty neat nutshell!
--- Saturday, May 21, 2005 -
Answer by: kisses
NO! Don't do it! He's obviously not looking for a good relationship, he's probably looking for something else if he's telling you he doesnt want a girlfriend, yet he wants you to move in with him. Now, it would be a lot different if you two were in a long-term relationship, but given your situation (which by the way, you left pretty vague) i'd say just don't do it, forget him and move on to someone better. Good luck
--- Friday, May 20, 2005 -
Answer by: beej
No. no no no. I can't think of anything else to tell you. Just don't. Moving in with a guy should take place only if you are just friends or if you are in love and in a Healthy relationship. Otherwise, take the risk of him never wanting to get together with you and you being forced to see him with other chicks. Also, I don't know your whole situation, but any guy who wants you to move in with him without making a commitment (and who is not just a friend) may be looking to see just how much you'll do for him. The more you let him control your actions, the more likely any relationship you have with him - official or not - will not be healthy, and possibly abusive.
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