So... here's my wonderful question. We all know that trust is the number one most important thing in a relationship. But how do you make your other half aware of that? See, our relationship has always been fine, but he for some reason always gets ideas in his head that I cheat on him or whatever. I'm working 3 jobs, so I'm hardly ever home, and I really only see him late at night, and by that point we are both bombed and just go to sleep. He constantly picks fights, accuses me of stupid things, and cant ever seem to realize I care for him and only him. I've broke his heart before, things weren't working out so we split up for a while, I have never had anyone else in my life since I've been with him, but while we weer split up he had another girlfriend for a really short period of time. I'm not sure if he is hiding someone, and assuming that I'm just like him and keeping a secret too.... so he just assumes automatically that I am lying, or if he has other issues. I've assured him a million times he's got nothing to worry about, and havent done anything to make him worry. What's his deal? thanks for whoever out there helps me out!!
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--- Monday, May 16, 2005 -
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prove to him he's got nothing to worry about. Take a day off for yourself one of these days and just spend that time with him. show him how much you love him and how much you still care. Just one spontaneous day, that's all he needs. He's doubting your love for him and he needs reassurance. Although you keep telling him you love him and he's got nothing to worry about, all i can say is actions speak louder than words. good luck!!
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