I met this girl from a friend about 2 weekes ago. We were both told about each other for a while before meeting. We went out fro dinner and to a bar. We got along really good and talked on the phone fro about a week. She asked me to go with her and her friend to a show she wanted to got to. So I said I would. When I got to the show she didnt really give me much attention ,she kept talking to her friend and would only look at me ever now and then and kinda smile but then go back to talking to her. I felt out of place because there were only 3 of us and I didnt know anyone. When it was over and we were walking out she said sorry we couldnt have talked more. We would talk non stop on the phone when we talked and she would say stuff like we sould do that someday so she really sounded interested so I dont get it. Also the first night we were out she kept touching me and holding my hand and we even kissed. but the second night she gave me a hug and kinda turned her head to the side. She said to call her when I got home and I did but it was late and it went to her vocie mail and I didnt leave a message,I figured she would see it on her caller ID in the morning. What should I do I think she is cool, do you think maybe she just acts different around her good friends? Should I call her or wait for her to call me if she does.
thanks shawn
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--- Monday, August 1, 2005 - Just Relax
Answer by: blueguardian
Hey buddy, sounds like you're taking this a little too seriously right now for what it is. First off....YOU NEED TO BE CONFIDENT IN YOURSELF If she senses that you're insecure, she won't like it. Also, I think you made a BIG mistake by going to a movie for a first-date. Think about it, All you do in a theatre is sit there and you don't have much opportunity to talk. Also, it sounds like you were the third wheel, I'm sure also that her friend being there helped make HER feel more comfortable, but it made things worse for you. Try not to put too much value on things right now, you've only known her for 2 weeks. Now to answer your question on calling her or waiting for her to call. I do think you should call her. But wait a few days first. Also, be sure and tell her that the date was a little awkward, although you have nothing against her friend, suggest that next time it just be the two of you, letting her know that you'd like to see her again. You should also keep the conversation short. Well, be confident and if things don't work out....remember that their's plenty of other single girls. Good Luck
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