Title: Good friend in jail

By: capone

Ok I dont know what to do right now. One of my best friends for 10 years just went to jail and proably for 10-20 years, (nothing domestic). Hes been with his girl a little over a year and Ive been close friends to them both. His girl has 3 kids with a different father that has never been in their life.
Ever since he went to jail I was going to have his side and make sure his belongings get back to him and she doesnt sell them if it ever happens (he'll be gone a long time)
Thing is the last few weeks Ive been hanging out with his girl and somewhat helping support her. her kids love me and shes been pretty dependent on her boyfriend and I guess I would call her co-dependent because she says she doesnt like to be home alone. Every once in a wile i would sleep there to keep her company but not next to her becuse we slept on a corner couch on both ends. Thing is I feel real bad for spending so much time with one of my best friends girlfriends. I enjoy spending money on her and her kids, but I still feel this guilt, I dont want to run off with my friends gf. The last few days we have been pretty intimate but we keep it away from our friends because we still visit him in jail and they will probably tell him. Hes been locked up for 2wks now. Today I decided not to call her and see if she does and she hasent yet, and it seems im the one who makes all moves, but she always follows.
I hate what Im doing but we get along so good. Should I keep this goin or not?? Shes in my head all day. ARGH!! not again!! (Beginnings are always the best tho :) )