Title:
how will u knw if ur partner is unfaithful?
By: checa
i have this relationship w/ a guy who's 10 yrs older than me.we've been living together for about 5 months now and evrything has changed this past few weeks...he's not staying w/ me at night anymore. he doesn't spend most of his time w/ me anymore.his reason was that for both of us not to get tired in the relationship.there was a time he had a msg from a girl and it was to0 obvious that he's already cheating on me but still he kept on denying.what would be the reason/reasons why he is acting that way?
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--- Tuesday, August 2, 2005 - ASK
Answer by: blueguardian
I think you're trying to ask two questions here.....The first is how you will know if your partner is being unfaithful. And the second is why your boyfriend is acting the way he is. I will start with the second question. I don't know your boyfriend but my best guess is that he is possibly cheating and that he wants two women, it's very selfish but this might be the case. Now my question for you is, if he's no longer staying with you at night, than where the h--- is he staying?? Also, where is he spending his time now, or with whom? If you already know the answers to these questions, don't allow yourself to be naive about it. I'll tell you this...If a relationship is going great, then their's no reason to put on the brakes. Now for the first question you asked, I think you already know the answer. You're going to have to decide on what you're going to do. You can't just sit back and hope things will work out, but also you aren't going to change him. Think about it like this, would you rather spend another 5 months with him while the whole time he's cheating, or spend the next 5 months single with the possibilty of meeting someone new everyday....someone who you have trust with, because it seems like you and your current boyfriend might have a trust issue as well. Be strong and good luck.
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