Im wondering if this Guy likes me or not...i notice little things sometimes that makes me think he does like: he has walked me home from the bar late at night ,he calls me often to hang out,we usually only hang out together(not too often with other ppl) and he sometimes acts uncomfortable when OTHER guys are flirting with me(i suspect he is Jealous)...but im confused, were already *good friends*...we went for a walk the other night by the water..and i was sitting closer and closer to him...he didnt move away nor did he move in closer but nothing happened between us..we talked ..then he walked me home and didnt try and kiss me or anything...(what's going on here?)
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--- Saturday, August 6, 2005 - From a guys perspective
Answer by: nickpalazini
I think that this guy does in fact like you, but maybe he wants to know how much you like him. Give him little signals and clues and see how he responds. Take the chance
To us guys, girls can be confusing, and sometimes we don't want to get hurt by taking the risk of telling a girl we like them (when most of the time the risk is worth it.) Guys do have feelings too.
I find it kind of ironic that a guy may like a girl and visa versa, but we're afraid to tell the other we like them when really it's probably what they want to hear...Just my thoughts
--- Saturday, August 6, 2005 -
Answer by: kim
heyy arent guys so confusing? anyways,there is a huge possibility this guy likes you and maybe doesnt have the guts to tell you...is he the shy types? Maybe he thinks you just think of him as a good friend and probably thinks he has no chance...Flirt with him a little...let him know that you want to take your relationship to the next level but in a really subtle way and then maybe he'll get it and if it still doesnt then well...u have no choice but to tell him.Don't keep your feelings inside or else you'll really regret it all your life!!!
--- Saturday, August 6, 2005 - It looks like it!
Answer by: Andi
It does sound that this guy really does like you. A similar experience did happened to me a few years ago, and I just ended up asking him out on a date; he did agree to do so. On our date, he expressed how much he really liked me and asked if it was obvious. He really wanted to ask me out when we first really got to know each other, but he said he felt I would pick some other 'hott' guy and felt that he wasn't good enough for me because I was so beautiful to him.
The same thing may be happening here. He could be shy with his feelings for you with many different reason, but maybe because he doesn't feel like he'll measure up to you. I'd take the risk on asking him out on a date; you'll never know what may happen. I still am baffeled that I summed up the courage to ask my guy out, and now we're engaged! I hope my story helped you and good luck with your guy!
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