Ok, this is my story. I'm 20 years old, and for the past year and 8 months I have been dating a guy. Everything up until a few months ago have been unbelievably amazing. We click, have lots of fun together, and love eachother like crazy. For some reason, recently we keep having stupid arguements. And now after all this time he has decided he wants to take a break. First he says he wants a break where for a few days we don't talk or see eachother and see what happens. But he will still call me like 5 times a day and care about me just as much as he always has. I don't understand why one minute he wants to try going cold turkey, and then the next minute he is calling me and leaving messages. Does anyone out there with relationship experience know what he's up to? He still loves me like crazy, and no there is no one else out there, it's just us. And right now our fighting is stopping us from being together. But he is sending me so many mixed signals, and I'm so wrapped up in it then I dont know what to believe, or what to think. Please help
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--- Friday, August 19, 2005 -
Answer by: Red_Roses
It sounds like you two are just going through relationship drama.
I think you two should be communicationg more, not fighting, and spending time apart that have negative connotations like "a BREAK." No wonder he's calling you so much -- he's probably afraid of losing you or breaking up. Sit down and talk and WORK on your relationship.
I'm gonna try to tell you what I think is going on based from what you've written.
I think the reason he *says* he wants to take a break is because of these stupid fights you've mentioned. I really believe he still loves you and cares about you as much as you say he does, and as much as you KNOW he does. His actions have proevn that he still loves you...but after these little fights, I think he starts doubting...but note how he always comes back. Try to get him to realize that arguements in a relationshp are going to happen. It's completely normal, but if you want them to become less frequent, you both must work to do that.
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