When I think back I have honestly only been disappointed by love. Maybe it is just that my expectations of the whole thing are just to high. But it seems either I'm head over hills for the guy, and he isn't that interested, or The guy is head over hills for me, and I'm just feeling it, it is like something is missing. I have always had the expectations that you should be excited to see the person, get butterflies the first time they hold your hand and the first time they kiss you. I have only had that once, but of course he just wasn't feeling it. Am I alway going to be disappointed by love? It seems everyone finds it but me. I'm just wondering if it is really out, the only relationships I have ever known between family and friends had ended up in divorce, or the husband cheating on the wife and her willing to deal with it. Is all this what really what we should expect when it comes to love? Does it really last? I'm to the point where I don't even enjoy dating anymore, cuz It seems I attract the guys that end up making the whole thing a nightmare. I just want to know if love is really out there, and is it really worth risking everything for?
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--- Tuesday, August 23, 2005 - well this seems dissapointing
Answer by: love pro adviser
well this is not a suprise that you seem that love is not out there. Let me tell you something. I have been a love pro aviser, giving people advise out there, for about 6 years and seen how people live there life. My goal is to help people in there problem with there relationship by giving them advise to help them. I have some advise for you in a situation like this. Let me tell you that LOVE IS REAL! it's out there and their trying to find it, just like you should. I think that you should find the person that you would like eventually. I also have a secret and that I'm in the same boat as you. But, do I quit? NO. I keep searching out there for the right person and have not found her. So there is advise for you. DON'T GIVE UP! I know that relationships dont work all the time, but the right person will come sooner or later. Good luck and hope my advise works for you.
Adrian Barcomb/Love pro Adviser
--- Monday, August 22, 2005 -
Answer by: Red_Roses
There ARE disappointments in love and dating -- but it serves as a learning experience.
There IS a guy out there for you, but you have to love yourself first and foremost. Get out there and socialize -- you can meet guys anywhere from at church, work, school, etc.
While some people hail it as a myth -- love really does happen when you LEAST expect it... only time will tell, though, if it is a love meant to be.
I can totally understand your frustration, and your reason to question whether love is really out there...but it is.
Don't feel that you're the only one who cannot find love. Everyone has had the same feelings you're having right now. Love is the greatest gift you can give to someone. If they don't realize that, then it's their loss, not yours. There are plenty of guys out there who are right for you, but you just cannot give up. The saying "Great love an great achievements involve risk" is true.
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