it had rarely been two months since me and my girl started our relation.she thinks of me as a realy good guy.Her cousins too know me well.they all think im good.
Soon I had my exams and she told me to study hard and that we will talk after my exams finshes.She said she wasnt saying this being rude... and...the exams finished.For me to pass those 20 days it was hard.
I called her.SHe said she couldnt at that time...and again after that day..i called and she said..she was studying...ok fine till now.
And one day i called her asked why she is acting like she's angry with me?...and not talking... she said she isnt having tme to talk coz she has school and so on...ok fine...
i told her i missed her alot...and guess what?she said..she didnt miss me much..and told not to miss her either.and that she is cinfused and wondering..if she realy thinks of me in that way coz she didnt miss mem much... But also..she said...she also said..this doesnt mean that we havta stop talking..and that...she might have feelings for me later on. Now whats this> what is happening?I can't stop thinking about her.And dont believe that this all is realy happening. what should i do?please tell me. i am a good guy with avreage looks and so...(thats what ppl say) i am 19 years old. ........... help!help!help!help! p.s can you write your ages?Thanx
Responses to this article:
--- Friday, September 16, 2005 - Thanx
Answer by: 18tillidie
Thanx to all for your kind and usefull advices. And yes konway,what ever you said about me its true.YOu've understood the problem very well.she studies in a different college and is 2 years junior to me in class. well..yes...i will do as you said and have been doing so. But...i am jut not through with it.I still have'nt forgotten her. Sometimes,things recall itself and i feel damn down. But i am thankfull...that i got to learn this lesson...i have become more of strong heart. Now i think, no matter hwta the pain i can take it. Still..please give me some advices...coz you know why...
--- Tuesday, September 13, 2005 -
Answer by: konway
oh, and I'm 24
--- Friday, September 9, 2005 - okay....
Answer by: konway
Honey, I know it's been a couple weeks since you wrote this, but, I really need to respond to this. Basically, everyone else on here has their hearts in the right place, and could be right, but try this on for size.
You're what, a sophomore in college? And from your email it's pretty apparent that either your girl is still in high school or she attends a different university. All righty. Come on, you're smart enough to figure out what I'm gonna say. It's not worth worrying about right now. You're young, you're probably going to meet (or already have met) a few girls you're interested in, and it's the perfect time to just mess around. Live, be young, don't tie yourself down too soon. There's plenty of time to meet the right girl, maybe it's this chick, maybe (probably) it's not, but don't spend too much time worrying about how she feels. You can't make her like you just like that chick who likes you can't make you like her. Don't miss out on finding a girl that's worth spending your time on and who thinks you're worth spending time with too.
--- Friday, September 2, 2005 - Well lets see
Answer by: love pro adviser
Well I really think that theres a problem with her and see if you can try not to dissapoint yourself with her too much. What i'm saying is that She could use some time alone by herself. If the problem continues like this, break up with her because she's not liking you if this is a continuous problem. There is no such thing as space. If she's having trouble by herself, Then she should be talikng to you about this. She's just fussy probably. Thats all. nothing less. So good luck and take my advise wisely.
I agree with Susie. I think this girl is totally confused herself about whether she wants a friendship vs. a relationship with you. Give it time, and things will work out.
Good luck, Nick-16
--- Sunday, August 28, 2005 -
Answer by: susie
oh yeah I'm 16
--- Sunday, August 28, 2005 -
Answer by: susie
to me it looks as though you should give her space. Althought she didnt make it that clear it seems that she isnt sure how she feels about you and is thinking that she may just like you as a friend. That is why she still wants to keep in touch. She just isnt looking for a relationship. I would try being friends and see how it goes. See if in time she realizes she does like you or if maybe you can try to move on as well. It is going to hurt especially seeing how much you care about her. So give it time and see how it goes.
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