Me and my ex broke up 3 months ago. She moved on with her life as she got involved immediately in another relationship, moved the new guy in after 1 month and 1/2 and is now engaged. She has a 5 year old daughter and the new guy is 23 she is 25. Now I had written a letter which my psychologist asked me to write as a form of therapeutic treatment. I decided to mail it as closure by the end of last month. 1 week ago she sent me pictures of her ex-husbands' new baby which is her daughters half brother.
Question: Why is she making contact with me? I mean those pictures are irrelevant.
Should i make some form of contact? Up til now i have not made any contact whatsoever after i mailed her the letter.
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--- Sunday, September 25, 2005 -
Answer by: Red_Roses
Blazed,
You shouldn't have mailed that letter. Writing letters as a means of therapy is to get out feelings. You aren't supposed to send them, but destroy them.
Blazed, I am sorry you are having a real tough time with this. Eventually you will stop analyzing and realize that she has moved on, and a healthier, more meaningful relationship is out there for you.
Keep seeing your psychologist. I applaud you on getting counseling, because it really does help. You are still licking your wounds, but in time -- it will pass, and get better.
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