me and my boyfriend have been going out for 2 years. i want to get married to him really bad and i want to start having kids, but why doesn't he? i have cheated and stole and lied but that was within the first 4 months. i was just worried that i would get stuck in a bad relationship so i just did thoes bad things to draw him away... but what is weird is he doesn't want to leave me. but the other weird thing is that he doesnt want to get married well he says soon but when he says that i think he means that he will never get married to me but do you think this is suspious that he would of asked me to marry me a year ago but now that that has all happend...do you think he is cheating? i mean we do argue alot and he is still in collage and he lives with his mom... well i am just really confused. why doesnt he love me like i love him? please help robyn.
Isn't it a bit ironic, or say, hypocritical -- of you to be worried that HE may be cheating, when you cheated and lied (and stole?) in the relationship anyhow? Sorry but, your "excuse" for doing those things to your boyfriend is pretty lame. In fact, you don't even sound sorry for what you did.
Were YOU thinking of HIM when you cheated on him, and lied to him? What makes what you did any different, regardless of it being the "first four months"?
You see, this really isn't about HIM. This is about you and the wrongs you did to him. Fact is, you cheated on him, and that means that you definitely are capable of doing such a thing, as well as you're certainly capable of stealing and lying. He probably is holding out because he still wonders if he can trust you, of if you'd do it again.
In all, honestly -- who can really blame him? You're lucky he is still around.
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