My counselor is acting like she likes me. I'm 15 and I've been going to her for a few months and I kind of like her. I asked her out but she told me she can't go out with me because she's my counselor but lately she's been doing stuff like smiling a lot and looking into my eyes and flipping her hair and stuff and acting real girly. She's like in her 20's and kind of hot. Does she like me?
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--- Sunday, October 9, 2005 - To mskater
Answer by: Jodie
Hi,
I don't think you should rush to any conclusions because often, if you want something, you can read too much into a situation. There is a similar post here involving a young lady and a guy at her Church and like her, your emotions are, most likely, all over the place.
That is, not to say however that what you observe is untrue - just ask yourself, do you really want to get involved with a person who exploits her position as a professional advisor to children... You are on the cusp of adulthood, mature enough to realise that this is unethical.
If her behaviour is having a detrimental effect on what you are taking from these sessions... is there anyone else who you could arrange to see?
Think about this as a test, many lads your age would take her up on an offer, why not be different? Why not show her that you are not interested in her games since the way you act around her may be encouraging her behaviour towards you. If a relationship was on cards, in 3 years time, you could pursue one but here and now with the relationship you are supposed to be having, I would say enjoy being with people your own age and if you feel uncomfortable, find another counsellor.
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