along time ago I went to a church aand got saved so I wanted my friends saved I went to a church and asked for help.a good looking young man helped em and winked at em leaving.now I go to his church and I like him.he says it can never happen between us cause 1 reason we are 6 years apart another he works for ut.I wanna change his mind.I justt want a chance you know to be with him just 1 chance.w/b
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--- Sunday, October 9, 2005 - To gurlie_16
Answer by: Jodie
Hi,
He sounds like a sensible guy and you ought to be grateful for that... you don't say how old you are but there are guys out there who would take advantage of a younger girl, a church person or not.
This might just be a crush so give it time. Get to know him but don't be too forward, friendships make the best relationships. Since you are saved I'm sure you'll be looking to God for answers so pray, I cannot emphasise this enough. Whenever you are in need of help, pray and the answers WILL become clearer.
Whatever you do, don't do something you might later regret. When you're in your teens (which I assume you are), your emotions can be all over the place. But if it is meant to be, it will happen in the future when you are both on the same level... The Lord will bless your patience, for his timing is always right and you can only speculate as to what his plans for you are.
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