My boyfriend and i had a small row about something tiny which erupted into the worst arguement ever, he poared out how horrible he thinks i am, and that he doesnt know if he loves me anymore, the minute he said that my heart just broke. I know why, because i nag, i bitch and i am VERy jealous, but the things he said have hurt me so much i can barely breathe. He also told me i complain too much, and he doesnt care if i walk out right now. I asked if he wanted to give us another chance and wanted to still be with me and he said he couldnt give a damn. I am so gutted. I love him so much and cannot lose him,. I begged him for firgiveness and he hugged me which i think was after 3 hrs of rowing and maybe a sign he kinda forgives me, but hes being so cold with me now. Im terrfieid of what to say, do, feel, see, how and why, i dont know wether ive made a mistake grovelling, or a fool of myself, and wether he is going to be different. Words cannot explain how hurt i am, he said he did not care while i was crying my eyes out in front of him. please help me, dont tell me to leave him because i cant and wont, i love him too much. how can i sort this? what can i possibly do?????
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--- Thursday, October 27, 2005 -
Answer by: IDIOTsinCRAZY
i dont know what to tell you because 1) what started the row? 2) what might you have done to make him act this way? 3) what might he be going through right now to trigger such an outburst?
i know that you might not know the answer to these questions, but thats what you need to learn in order to understand and help the situation. and i wont tell you to leave him, but he might just go and leave you anyways, so... yeah. sorry that may have come out a little harshly. everything will happen as it must... [now dont we get this all the time?]
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