Well...I met this guy like 2 weeks ago and we talked for hours!...We made out for a few and then exchanged numbers...less than 24 hours later he calls and we started talking on the phone...everyday...everynight...i mean everthing was going great...and then all of a sudden...it stopped...we'd talk n he'd say he'd call back and never did till like the next day...then he started working night shifts and its been like 3 days since I talked to him last and I don't know what happened?...I understand the whole work thing...but I don't kno...it just seems like he'd call sometime...am I jumping to conclusions...should I wait and call him and talk about it?!...what should I do?!?!?!?
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--- Sunday, October 9, 2005 -
Answer by: IDIOTsinCRAZY
hey, i get this a bit more... my gf and i hardly talk everyday, but we kno that we still are interested in a relationship. try to get a good understanding of his opinion about the relationship. dont pay alot of attention to what he could be doing while hes not calling u or what could be gewtting in the way. some ppl are like that. like what tone does he use, does he seem to be enjoying it? that kind of thing. i guess its all been said...
dan
--- Sunday, October 9, 2005 -
Answer by: Red_Roses
As much as I understand how important phone calls are to females, don't freak out.
And again, I know how women love to analyze men and try to get into their heads about what they're thinking -- but in this case, it's only been three days. Maybe he's been hanging out with his friends, or had some homework to do, or working a lot (as you mention), so it seems to me that he is just caught up in things.
As Jodie says, don't get all your hopes up over him. In reality, you've just met him and you still really don't know him. Granted, I'm sure you like him and enjoy talking to him, but don't focus so much on it and worry about it, and don't expect anything to come out of this (otherwise you may be setting yourself up for disappointment). Have a casual attitude about new people you're interested in, and if he does call, you'll be pleasantly surprised. :-)
--- Sunday, October 9, 2005 - To aLix7
Answer by: Jodie
Hi,
It's always exciting when you embark on a new relationship since you are getting to know each other, sussing out whether you have anything in common - it's all go...
I wouldn't worry too much about what's happened... chatting on the phone every day and every night is bound to become tiresome after a while - perhaps he wants to meet up again... we can only speculate as to why he seems uninterested but we can't jump to conclusions...
The next time you talk to him, ask him when he'd be free to meet up. Tell him you understand how he's busy with work but you'd like to see him again. If he makes up excuses or says he'll call and he doesn't, you have your answer, I'm afraid. Don't chase after him because it just ain't cool :-) I do hope things work out though, just don't pin all your hopes...
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