I started seeing my baby's daddy about 8 months ago. We were never boyfriend and girlfriend just "friends with benafits" But a month into it I got pregnant. So I moved in with him. And we started acting like boyfriend and girlfriend. Then just recently he ended it with me. And doesnt want anything to do with me. But he does want to be in the baby's life. I dont know what to do. I am very hurt and dont know what to do. Part of me wants to end it all and not let him in her life. What should I do??
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--- Thursday, December 29, 2005 - My advice
Answer by: frogbaby
You should let him be a part of ur baby's life. If you don't ur son might be mad at you as he gets older. When he gets older he can make the choice, then he wouldn't hold a grudge on you for not allowing him to see his father. I know that he wants nothing to do with you, but at least he wants something to do with what he helped make. It could be a good thing or bad. But you would never know if you never give it a chance. All you have to be is civil around him, just for ur son. But that's my advice. It's not right or wrong. It's what ur heart feels. I was always taught to forgive and forget. You dont' have to forget, but you can forgive. It's not his fault that you guys aren't meant to be.
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