I have liked this guy for ages... no other guy has made me feel this way and the other week he admitted he liked me 2. I usually get the train with him and his mate but on this day he left his mate behind and he said he just wanted to spend some time with me anyways we end up in each others arms talking n kissing on the train! The thing is I knew he had a gf and I knew I shouldn't have done what I did, but she had dumped him 6 times in a yr n a half and I knew he didn't love her nemore neways we start texting each other over the christmas holidays and he suddenly text's me I jus broke up with my gf and I feel really down I don't know what to do. n rather foolishly I text him; 'I wish I was there to hold you in my arms 2 comfort you and tell you everything will be alright and ocassionaly making you laugh with one of my poor jokes.' Well I haven't heard from him since, I txt him the next day asking if he was alright but nothing and that was a week ago and because we don't live near each other and we don't go bac to college yet I haven't seen him in 2 wks. I have a feeling that what I text him was a bit 2 much and that I came on way 2 strong especially as he had just broken up with his gf but truthfully im not being bigheaded but I think he broke up with her because of me! He said that he didn't like her as a person nemore and that she had changed and that he was only going out with her still to keep the peace but as soon as I said to him I don't want to get involved with a taken man he goes and dumps her! Have I come on way 2 strong? or am I just parinoid? I can't sleep coz im so worried about seeing him again this Tuesday I really don't know what I should do? Please help x
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--- Tuesday, January 17, 2006 - thank you
Answer by: greenfairyx
hey thank u for ur response... thankfully it turned out all right in the end, he had just ran out of credit and he even tried to txt me new yrs eve on his sisters phone but because so many other people where doing the same thing I didn't recieve it. I have found out that he is not ready for another relationship so at the moment we are jus v.close friends n im happy :)
--- Sunday, January 15, 2006 - IT'S OK ,YOU'RE PARINOID
Answer by: mona214
WELL NO YOU DIDNT COME ON TOO STRONG BUT MAYBE YOUR TEXT MADE HIM REALIZE WHAT HE WAS DOING, THAT OR HE WAS JUST USING YOU. SORRY I KNOW THAT SOUNDS HARSH BUT GUY WILL DO THAT,DONT WORRY ABOUT IT THERES MORE GUYS OUT THERE
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