MY EX AND I WERE TOGETHER FOR ABOUT 3 1/2 YEARS. IM 21 AND HES 24.EVERYTHING WAS GREAT UNTIL ABOUT A YEARS AGO WHEN WE MOVED IN TOGETHER. WE STARTED TO PICK AT EACH OTHER AND HAVING SMALL ARGUMENTS. IT GOT TO THE POINT THAT WE DIDNT REALLY WANT TO BE AROUND EACH OTHER ALL THE TIME ANYMORE...ACTUALLY, HE WANTED SPACE AND I PRETTY MUCH ENDED UP SMOTHERING HIM. I DECIDED ABOUT A MONTH AGO THAT I WAS GOING TO MOVE OUT. HE AND I TALKED ABOUT IT AND WE BOTH AGREED THAT IT WOULD BE A GOOD IDEA TO GIVE EACH OTHER SOME SPACE BUT WE WOULD STAY TOGETHER AS A COUPLE. THREE DAYS AGO HE AND I GOT INTO IT A LITTLE AND I ASKED HIM IF HE WANTED TO BE WITH ME. HE SAID THAT HE LOVED ME AND WANTED THE BEST FOR ME, BUT HE WASNT IN LOVE WITH ME ANYMORE. WE TALKED ABOUT IT A LOT AND HE SAID THAT I WAS HIS BEST FRIEND AND HE STILL WANTED TO HANG OUT AND BE FRIENDS AND HE WOULD HELP ME OUT WHENEVER I NEEDED IT BUT HE JUST DIDNT WANT A ROMANTIC RELATIONSHIP RIGHT NOW. HE ALSO SAID THAT IT WASNT BECAUSE HE WANTED TO DATE SOMEONE DIFFERENT, HE JUST WANTED TO DO THE WHOLE GUY THING AND HANG OUT WITH HIS FRIENDS. MY PROBLEM IS THAT I AM STILL DEEPLY IN LOVE WITH HIM AND ALL I CAN HOPE FOR IS THAT WE EVENTUALLY GET BACK TOGETHER. I KNOW THAT HE DOES STILL LOVE ME, BUT DO YOU THINK HE COULD EVER FALL BACK IN LOVE WITH ME AND WE COULD HAVE A CHANCE AT HAVING A RELATIONSHIP AGAIN?
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--- Wednesday, January 11, 2006 - Give it time
Answer by: GreenFairyx
My 1st bf dumped me - I was only 16 but I felt that my whole world was falling apart I was even 2 numb to cry and I felt that my heart was breaking and that I could neva get ova him but I gave it time and I managed to move on and I found the most amazing guy which we have been dating for ova 2 yrs now and I realsied that love isn't the be all and end all in a relationship.. what im trying to say is give it time and him some space maybe he might realise how much he misses you and want you back or mayb you can start to get ova him and meet someone else amazing x
--- Thursday, January 5, 2006 - WHERE DO YOU SEE THE RESPONSE
Answer by: JENNAH
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