Hello.. Im an 18 yr old gal caught between two guys... Theres this one guy I really love...but he's from a different religion and my parents are dead against him... I tried to break up with him several times..but it just wouldnt happen as everytime i would be drawn back to him.. He stays far from me, so we meet each other.. perhaps only twice in a year.. But as it is, i din want to go against my parents, so i decided to go for another relationship with another guy so that it would be easier for me to forget this first guy and steer clear of him... I like this second guy, he's from a rich family and my parents like him too and they really dont have any problem now... But inspite of this, Im not able to get the first guy out of my mind... None of the guys knows that Im involved with another guy too... No matter how much I try to hold myself back, but I cant stop myself calling my first true love...my relation with him is not a mere relation of love, but its of pain.. I can feel his pain... but still...I know i cant be with him and have to get away from him... What do i do? I feel so caught up in this situation!!!! Please help me out!!!
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--- Friday, January 6, 2006 -
Answer by: AdrianThorn85
Personally your parents aren't you. Secondly, money shouldn't matter. And third, if you really feel like you love the first guy, then you won't be able to forget him no matter how many other guys you try to be with to make you forget. You'll never get anywhere pretending to love someone when you really love someone else. All you'll have are regrets, just do what your heart tells you to and that's against your parents wishes well guess what, your parents are human also, they'll get over it, and if they won't they aren't good parents. I've been in the same situation, and normally they just come to accept it.
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